Model good behaviour

View from the Strip

By Casey Lessard

I was reading a story online about how Lambton Shores is trying to crack down on high school “rowdies” who come to the beach and leave it a mess. While I don’t dispute that it may happen, I wonder why high school students – not all of whom are rowdy and not all of whom are disrespectful – were singled out.

Young people are Grand Bend’s main base, and the whole point of a vacation spot is to make people feel like they are welcome guests, no matter how old. If a town wants to attract families, usually those kids grow up to be high school students and then adults. It’s part of the life cycle.

And just as high school students can be irresponsible, so can college students and senior citizens. Believe it. None of us is a saint. Except my mom, of course.

So while it’s fine to point out that kids should be in school instead of trashing the beach, let’s be conscious of the fact that press is press, and Grand Bend’s new beach got a lot of attention thanks to those kids, who apparently come one day to trash the town. Who trashes it the rest of the year? Shouldn’t we be as worried about them?

Besides, most of the high school kids I know are actually quite respectful, even though some may be a little careless. But when they are careless or irresponsible, let’s take a look at who’s taking really responsible for their behaviour. Where are their parents, peers, and passersby? We’re all responsible for stopping bad behaviour when we see it. I’m sure you know what 911 does. Don’t feel like getting in a fight? Use that number.

Or even better, model to kids the respect you want to see. Police and surveillance cameras do the job, but what do they teach the next generation of beach goers? To feel safe, or to feel nervous? There’s a good balance of security somewhere. Let’s find it without all the bravado.

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